tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6056601109073385449.post6112180476204716703..comments2023-10-31T02:05:08.039+11:00Comments on M Group Retail: A life worth livingAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09103250092345201537noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6056601109073385449.post-76737708507910702822011-06-21T04:40:01.385+10:002011-06-21T04:40:01.385+10:00you just take care of yourself and come visiting w...you just take care of yourself and come visiting when you are ready!<br />blessings...<br /><br />KarenAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01004155201426274017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6056601109073385449.post-44874280927213428042011-06-18T16:05:01.938+10:002011-06-18T16:05:01.938+10:00What a wonderful honest post. I too suffered postn...What a wonderful honest post. I too suffered postnatal and went through the withdrawal, just couldn't face things and found it hard to make decisions. It is perfectly understandable after what you have been through recently. Take your time, look after yourself. Thinking of you. GxGeorgyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12286499490797650792noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6056601109073385449.post-18312863354871611712011-06-18T12:43:46.825+10:002011-06-18T12:43:46.825+10:00Take care of you Nellie however you need to do it....Take care of you Nellie however you need to do it. Its your journey but know there are a lot of warm arms wrapped around you along the way. Thinking of you.<br />Rebecca xLife in the Country Lanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14531585554100996099noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6056601109073385449.post-47050848038489494612011-06-18T08:41:54.963+10:002011-06-18T08:41:54.963+10:00Don't be hard on yourself honey. I think you&#...Don't be hard on yourself honey. I think you're likely traumatised by what happened. When I suffered from trauma I found it extremely difficult to be amongst people, make decisions. Socialising is a real boost but the nature of trauma is different to depression and you just need to give yourself some time. You'll know when you can and when you can't, you're a very self aware person. We're all here for you, sending you lots of love..RachaelxxA Room For Everyonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11441978230352333422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6056601109073385449.post-82966116556247356502011-06-17T23:35:01.270+10:002011-06-17T23:35:01.270+10:00Gracious for all the trials your world has had it&...Gracious for all the trials your world has had it's going to take time. Sometimes we can't see light at the end of the tunnel but believing it exists is a leap of faith.Beach House Livinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14304023289393977207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6056601109073385449.post-83308289072637367292011-06-17T23:02:57.118+10:002011-06-17T23:02:57.118+10:00Hi nellie,
you poor thing, you have been through a...Hi nellie,<br />you poor thing, you have been through a lot in the year. So good that your doctor picked up on it so soon. Is the exercise helping you? I know that this was what i was advised to do initially when i saw the dr about depression (not a good one actually) but it just didnt really do a whole lot for me ... I hope it does the trick for you though. have to go nellie unfortunately - seb is calling me and wont wait!... You are in my thoughts lovely, laura xxxLaurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05809886402117539391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6056601109073385449.post-87395047638595006482011-06-17T20:50:17.736+10:002011-06-17T20:50:17.736+10:00Nellie, not only are you grieving, but your body i...Nellie, not only are you grieving, but your body is dealing with hormones...a double whammy. It's going to take some time to feel like getting back into things. The only thing you can do wight now is surround yourself with supportive people and you will drift back in when you are ready. At least you are out and about, and yes the sunshine and going outside will boost you.<br /><br />Have a good weekend.<br /><br />ChaniaRazmatazhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02757164543598076420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6056601109073385449.post-77648508180442984342011-06-17T17:21:41.138+10:002011-06-17T17:21:41.138+10:00Hi Nellie,
What you are going through is normal an...Hi Nellie,<br />What you are going through is normal and over time you will feel better. When I had a miscarriage three years ago I felt a lot like this for about 5 or 6 months and eventually spoke to my GP about it and broke down. I felt stupid as I always try to be so strong but she told me she felt exactly the same way when she had suffered a miscarriage too. Talking to her made me feel better and after that the feelings of despair and sadness began to fade. You need to take time, talk to friends or family and mend your broken heart. Things will get better with time but it's all still fresh for you now. A few months from now you'll be back to your old self but right now you need to go through this process so that you can come out stronger the other side. And stop beating yourself up! You're only human and so many of us have been through things - we are all here for an online chat which may be a good start until you are ready to talk face to face with people.<br />Sending you love,<br />SamSamantha2818https://www.blogger.com/profile/16696352521361347405noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6056601109073385449.post-80022237866902124282011-06-17T16:15:35.946+10:002011-06-17T16:15:35.946+10:00Nellie, sweet girl, you are totally excused and I ...Nellie, sweet girl, you are totally excused and I hereby give you full permission to lurk away as much as you like. <br />Now you have recognised what is going on for you, just concentrate and getting yourself where you need to be. We will all be here for you when and where ever you pop in.The Moerkshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12052384345158012756noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6056601109073385449.post-24652446941277865812011-06-17T16:06:29.674+10:002011-06-17T16:06:29.674+10:00Don't be too hard on yourself Nellie, you'...Don't be too hard on yourself Nellie, you've been through a lot. It's good that you are able to step back and take a look at how you have been feeling and acting and how you have given yourself some small steps to work towards. Thinking of you always, Amanda xAmandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14697932926715802541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6056601109073385449.post-7739298535310508652011-06-17T16:05:31.058+10:002011-06-17T16:05:31.058+10:00Nellie, at least you can recognise it and actively...Nellie, at least you can recognise it and actively do something about it. I think that is the first step! Good on you and just keep plugging away, I am sure it will get easier soon. In the meantime, don't be too hard on yourself. Have a lovely weekend. xxJennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02994986959213977781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6056601109073385449.post-23516885799840163982011-06-17T11:52:25.019+10:002011-06-17T11:52:25.019+10:00Be kind to yourself Nellie and take your time xxBe kind to yourself Nellie and take your time xxSimone - honeyandfizzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13262417401953983884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6056601109073385449.post-48890310216637024002011-06-17T11:40:26.057+10:002011-06-17T11:40:26.057+10:00Darling Nellie, Thank you for such an honest post....Darling Nellie, Thank you for such an honest post. I understand what you're describing and it's totally normal when you've been through the year you've been through. I think it's a great idea to try those tips you listed. Be kind and patient on yourself too though. You are still in my thoughts and prayers and I hope that you start to feel a bit more back to life soon - you are very brave and courageous in my eyes! Big hugs,<br />JxxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00181833820931997775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6056601109073385449.post-40665367410052156652011-06-17T11:36:02.337+10:002011-06-17T11:36:02.337+10:00Hi my sweet girl. I have been thinking of you and ...Hi my sweet girl. I have been thinking of you and wishing you well in body and spirit! You are still grieving and depression is apart of the process. I know how you feel with the depression part, I've suffered with it since my early teens, and it is hard to connect with others when your feeling down. Things will look up again, give yourself as much time as you need and take care of yourself!!! I love you sweetie,I'm here if you need to talk.<br />Sincerely,<br />MelindaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com